Jadedness of a Psychic Medium

Who wouldn’t want to be a professional psychic medium?  Most people do not even know what the word psychic medium even means, they have their own definition.

• Mediumship is defined as the practice of certain people—known as mediums—to mediate communication between spirits of the dead and the living.
• Psychic is defined as being sensitive to the electrical, magnetic and other energies emanating from the individual and known as the aura.  A psychic is able to access information from the emotional, physical, and spiritual parts of the auric fields.   As the aura contains all the information about a person’s life, psychic readings can be very accurate.

I’ve heard all the psychic jokes out there.

Stranger: “Oh you’re a psychic?…then read my mind and tell me my name”…
Me: “Ummm, you don’t know your name?  Would it sound like bitch?”   *crickets*

Ok so perhaps saying, “it doesn’t work that way”,  sounds nicer but my response feels so much better!

Just because I work in a spiritual field doesn’t mean I’m a nun or act like some religious monk.  I get pissed off, really pissed off!  Yea, yea I know, don’t let it bother you, blah, blah.  Everyone has ego… EVERYONE.  You can’t NOT feel emotion.  There’s a difference between being real and being passive.

There are skeptical people, which I don’t have a problem reading.  I’m ok you are skeptical but want to experience a session and learn how this works.  Most people have a healthy skepticism, but there are some that no matter what you do or say it would be wrong or twisted around.  If you are too accurate you must be a chartalan, if you aren’t accurate enough you have to be a chartalan.  If you aren’t emotional enough you’re mean and cruel.

It’s not my job to hold your hands and cry, it’s my job to be non judgmental and non emotional, yet empathetic  in order to relay the information that I hear, see or feel. To give a great reading in order to help move you along this path we call life.  It’s not my job to try and read your mind and ‘guess’ what you’re thinking, or ‘guess’ what you want or don’t want me to say.

I had one client that I read very easily.  A very open person and I knew exactly what was going on in their life and why they were calling.  It was a last minute reading which meant I had 15 min before calling them.  When they got the recording back they dissected the read so much that they accused me of using tarot cards because I was so accurate.  What the hell?!?  Who gets accused of using tarot cards with accuracy!

I’ve had a couple of clients that had certain thoughts in their heads before a reading that if I say this or that then it means I’m scamming them.  If Barb tells me I’ve had a bad path and have gone through very tough times then I know she’s a fake… even when it’s true.  Again… what the hell?!?   Or my favorite, I’ve told Bob whose passed on that he needs to come through in the session, so if Barb doesn’t pick up on dear Bob then Barb’s a fake.   Or I told Bob this before the session, tell me what I said.  Sighhhh.

I will say I have had one client come back about 6 months later, after standing up 6 months before and yelling at me what an awful reading it was and I should be ashamed of myself, all I could think of at the time was oh shit they’re back!  But they apologized to me and explained they were disappointed, not because the reading wasn’t accurate, but because they didn’t hear what they wanted to hear.  I already knew that while they stood there screaming at me the first time but knowing the reason for the verbal abuse didn’t make me feel any better in the moment.  The second reading went great and the spirit they wanted to come through the first time came through easily the second visit.

Sometimes I want to just say why don’t you tell me what you want me to say and I’ll just repeat it so you can hear what you want.

Just let the information come through the way it’s going to come through.  You won’t have a good experience in a reading if you are constantly trying to prove or disprove the process.  It will backfire, you are sabotaging your reading without even knowing it.  You are not ‘testing’ me or making me try to prove myself.  You are actually testing spirit and making spirit prove themselves.

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