Let Your Haters Be Your Motivators

Don’t let your haters hold you back.

We all have had enemies or so-called friends who have stabbed us in the back.  These are called “Haters”.  I too am not immune to haters, drama seekers or the occasional bully!  A wise friend once told me, “Let your haters be your motivators.”  When you come across haters in your life, let that motivate you to press on and do what you’ve set out to do.
No matter what you do or how nice you are to them, it’s always some kind of drama with them.  It can be nothing more than pure jealousy, otherwise, why would the person even bother to do or say anything at all.  You have the confidence they wish they had.  Continue to do all the right things.  Hold your head high and always smile.
When you have haters, it can mean you are doing something right, that they don’t like.  Keep moving on and reach for the stars.  The sky is the limit.  Don’t let anyone hold you back or tell you how you should be.  Make your haters your motivators.

With my line of work, it can be very cut throat.  Yes I know, we are suppose to be spiritual.  Most of us are, we all work differently and have different beliefs because of our own experiences and skills.  I choose to walk the line.  I allow people to be who they are, make the choices they want without judgement or my own emotional twist on things.  The psychic world of business is extremely competitive!
But think of it in this way, we as psychics make our living by having clients.  The more clients, the more success.  The more success, the more your actions and words are twisted by others in the media or by others who are jealous.  If you are in a similar situation of haters or bullies, remember that people do not define who you are, YOU do!  People believe what they want to believe.
If you are one of the people stuck in the middle of drama and not sure what to believe, don’t be forced to choose sides.  There is always two sides no matter how flat you make a pancake.

I started my intuitive business years ago when I made changes in my life and made a vow that I will finally be who I was meant to be.  I will never try to play a part, like an actress in a movie.
I worked hard and with integrity to build my business to where I have become an important name in this business, when you’re good at what you do, it shows.  I have a fan base of over 2400 (not too shabby), and will be on the cover of a magazine & focused article in August 2011!  I have a great ‘team’ of management support, including a power bull dog publicist.  Her work ethic not her looks, hehee.  The moral of this story is, surround yourself well.

Rule #1

Never argue, confront, or struggle with haters.  When you engage the hater, you give them the power to control and manipulate you.

  • Wisdom is too high for a fool.
  • Do not answer fools according to their folly, or you yourself will be just like them.
  • As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly.

Rule #2

No matter what the hater does or says remember and practice The Golden Rule, treat them the way you want to be treated, despite how they treat you or what they say about you.  It can be difficult, especially when what they are saying is not the entire truth.  But take the high road, they will continue to drown in their own negativity and jealousy and people will begin to see them for who they actually are.

  • What goes around comes around, you will reap what you sow.
  • Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
  • As water reflects the face, so one’s life reflects the heart.

Rule #3

Never let haters throw you off your game.  Nothing pleases a hater more than to see you fail.  Focus intently on achieving your goals and being the best you that you can be.  Stay positive and look for the good in every situation. Think good thoughts!  Expect good.

  • You will attract into your life the people, ideas, and circumstances that harmonize with your dominant thoughts.
  • As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.
  • Success is the greatest revenge.

Universal Anthem For Haters

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Lifestyle Intuitive Makeover

Take the first step to the life you’ve dreamed of!
Lifestyle Intuitive Makeover – is a one on one meeting by phone or in person with your intuitive lifestyle expert, Psychic Medium Barb Powell!
It is not a full psychic reading.

Your Lifestyle Intuitive Makeover will consist of 5 – 30min phone or in person consultations.  Barb Powell will look at all areas of your life, create the next chapter of your life!  Be happy, satisfied and content.

What are your goals…creating a business, debt free, opening up intuitive abilities, etc?…the choice is yours!!  I will help you & it will be!
If you are feeling stuck in life, relationship issues, work/career issues, parents/children issues – whatever the goals/dreams you are seeking your intuitive lifestyle expert will help.

Have you started or wanting to start your own business and unsure of what to do next?  Need to increase productivity, more clients, etc?  Are you already a beginner intuitive, energy healer and want/need to move more in that direction, something holding you back?
Then this program is for you.

5 – 30min phone/in person consultations designed personally for you
After purchasing your program, an email will be sent in the next few days requesting an initial intake consultation.  The intake consultation will be a simple conversation to discuss your needs, goals and dreams.

Cost $350

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Relationship Secrets – Intuitive Lifestyle Expert

Do you compare yourself and your significant other as two ships passing in the night?  Do you find yourself craving an emotional connection and a more meaningful intimacy with your spouse? I’m sure most of us at some point in our lives can relate having ‘talks’ at 1am in the morning with zero results?  You’re wanting the other person to understand how you are feeling and when they don’t change, we feel unloved, unwanted and rejected….we take it personally.
Of course, how else are we to take it?  Open your mind, stop trying to move mountains and most importantly….don’t just read but absorb and integrate what you are reading into your life!

Be yourself and never change yourself to fit another.  There are times where we change without even recognizing we are.  Our spouse pulls away if we try to hug or kiss them, we then find ourselves not bothering to try.  We don’t do the little things that count such as leaving little notes, or planning something special because we feel it’s not appreciated.  Why should we do this since we don’t get it back.  It’s not a contest!
We stop caring how we look because we don’t receive compliments or the results that we expect.  Aaaah, expectations!  Leave expectations at the door.
In any relationship, it’s a matter of what we can and can’t put up with.  I can put up with my husband having a need for the toilet paper to be placed on the holder with it dispensing over rather than under (can anyone say O.C.D) but I refuse to put up with emotional or physical abuse!  Does it annoy me? Absolutely, but I won’t allow myself to resent it and become bitter over it. Yes I can become bitter, the paper does it’s job regardless of how it is placed on the roll!  Sigh….
Long story short, do what you feel.  Go get that kiss and hug regardless and don’t take it personally.  Plan special outings and events.  Read a couples book together…Kama Sutra anybody?!

Be aware of you!  Be aware of your actions, how you carry yourself, your unspoken words, and body language.  Make a pack with yourself to not take things personally, a lot of the time it doesn’t have anything to do with you! Don’t stop living, push forward and find yourself.  When we are in such a relationship where we feel the other person is rejecting us emotionally or physically we then tend to analyze the whys.  It is NOT your job to figure your spouse out.  That is their job, don’t make it yours.  There is truth to the saying that we teach others how to treat us.  Think about that.
Feed that soul of yours, get out and make changes.  Exercise, get in shape….take a course, do what moves you and makes you feel great about yourself!

Raise your energy.  The energy that we carry around us speaks louder than words or actions.  When we feel tired, worn out and beaten down because we don’t have control over our relationship, it speaks through us via the unseen blanket that covers us called energy.  Haven’t you ever went into a store feeling pretty good and got body checked out of the way by an impatient person in a bad mood and left the store in a bad mood yourself.  (Yep, happened to me too and the other person lived!)  Then you transfered that bad mood energy to your family….energy is a powerful force!  Meditate and visualize yourself in whatever pool of healing waters you want.  Call upon your Spirit Guides and Angels for strength.  Use self talk to calm yourself down, this is not your problem so don’t accept this negative energy.
Raising your energy helps protect you and keep your mood up, which then helps raise self esteem and confidence which then rubs off onto your relationship as well.

You will begin to see and feel results in a few days.  Be sure to keep those communication doors open.
There will be times where you falter and go back to old habits.  But just like falling off a diet, you get back to being healthy and follow the road to success.

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What are you attracting!

Psychic LifeStyle Expert
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Question: Why do I keep attracting abusive relationships?
After getting out of a 22 year relationship with an abusive man, 10 years ago, I have felt as though my life truly began when my marriage ended.
While I have learned and grown so much in the last ten years, I feel this block inside me that prevents me from finding and attaining what I want in life.
I’m holding myself back.  How do I unblock that part of myself that prevents me from finding the type of relationship that is loving, respectful and supportive?
The same type of man keeps showing up in my life and I now realize, it’s me doing the attracting and bringing into my life. Help!
Crystal, age 49

Dear Crystal, you are not alone in this dilemma of attracting negative relationships which leave you drained.  I applaud you in realizing that it is you who is attracting and bringing it into your life, that is the first step for change!  Without realizing it, you are already starting the process of clearing out the old and in with the new.
Barb Powell, Psychic LifeStyle Expert

Like Crystal, do you ever notice that you attract the same types of partners over and over again? Isn’t it perplexing when you end a bad relationship — vowing to never again date a person like that — you seem to end up with a new partner who turns out to have those same qualities?

So, what do you do when you notice you are picking the same kind of partner over and over again? What do you do when you notice you are picking people you have to convince to love you?

First and foremost, understand what you are really doing in relationships. Look at your motivations. Look at the story of your life that you are trying to tell.  Be honest and truthful with what you recognize in yourself.  Be authentic!  Take a good look at your childhood, parents, interactions of friends and the teachers in your life.  What do you tell yourself in your own mind?

Second, start to heal those past wounds by giving to yourself. Didn’t get enough attention as a child? Spend an hour a day in solitude and silence finding out how you feel and who you are. Didn’t get enough toys? Establish a separate savings account and call it “Play Money.” Spend it only on toys, and make sure to spend it all and often. You get the idea. Get your needs met. Remember to make a pledge to yourself first thing in the morning to be aware of you.  Aware of the energy you are receiving and giving off.

Third, learn how to be only with people who are willing to grow. People who are not willing to grow are not bad. But being in an intimate relationship with them will hurt, because relationships are always about growth for both people involved.  Stick to your ‘guns’, stop making excuses for those around you, set your boundaries…never deviate from the plan.

And finally, choose people who want to be with you beyond the three-month crush.

Be conscious and choose wisely. It’s your life. Make it full of love.

 

Disclaimer:  Psychic Medium Barb Powell often shares insights derived from intuitive communications.  Any advice she offers is not meant to override your personal health providers’ recommendations/prescriptions, but is intended to offer a higher perspective on your behalf based on the question you asked of her.
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“I’m not a cry baby!” – Empathic Intuitive

Empathic Ability:  Part One — What is an Empath?

An Empath is a person who can tune in to the emotional experience of a person, place or animal.  In the paranormal and in some works of science fiction and fantasy, highly developed empathy is a psychic ability to sense the emotions of others and often highly aware of the health and state of mind of their loved ones, no matter how physically near or far away the individuals may be.

It can be challenging for an Empath to function healthily in society if they are unaware that they have this sensitivity and often opt to be alone.

Empaths are born being just that.  They’re born unskilled and are generally very understanding of others and their positions, and often times will ask questions rather than make snap judgments, or intuitively seem to ‘know’ there is more to a story than what meets the eye.  They are sensitive to TV, videos, movies, news and broadcasts.  Violence or emotional dramas depicting shocking scenes of physical or emotional pain inflicted on adults, children or animals can bring an empath easily to tears.

Empaths are people who don’t “read” the future, or predict it … they “read” and feel people, and their energy although sometimes it depends on the person being read, too.  They’re often problem solvers, thinkers, and studier’s of many things.  They are the psychic sponges of the world, soaking up all the psychic and emotional static that other people give off.  Being an Empath is one of the most common and most challenging of all the psychic gifts.

  • Want to know how to parent an empath?
  • Are you an empath that wants to plug in, switch on and off?

Jennifer Aniston and John Travolta are Empaths.  This is why they have the ability to truly convey emotions on screen.  Be it that of anger or sympathy.  John Travolta is a feeler, he takes on other people’s stuff?  A sucker for a sob story.  He has a busy mind, he thinks and thinks which brings up doubt and other issues and feels bad when he can’t help everyone.

What makes Jen Aniston an Empathetic person?
Jennifer Aniston is like a life coach for everyone, she keeps going from one relationship to another but can’t find the ‘right” one.  She sees and feels the potential in these guys but doesn’t see them for what they really are.  Then she feels badly for her friends/family when they feel bad or their lives are going wrong.  She bends over backwards for others.
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Watch for Empathic Ability – Part Two coming soon…if you have questions that you would like more information on of the above topic, please leave them in the comments section!

Do you recognize yourself in the above description?  Are you an Empath? Please share your personal story here for others to learn and grow from.

Who do you think are Empathic in the celebrity world?

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Why is it so easy for certain people?


Have you ever wondered why life seems so easy for certain people? They can say what they want, do what they want, and everything just works out of them. They have great relationships with their spouses and kids…they leap out of bed in the morning, looking forward to their jobs, can eat whatever they want, and always seem to glow! (I know, I used to hate those people too).

Do you ever ask yourself, “why do they have it so darn easy?” “Why does everything work out for her!” “Why is my life so complicated, and why do I have to be the one to hold everything together?”

Are you certain that your authentic self is in there…somewhere, but you don’t know what it sounds like because you’re so busy listening to everyone else? You take really great care of your family: your kids are happy, busy, and carefree. Your husband has hobbies, guy time, and time to relax after he gets home from work. And YOU have…a job, laundry, dishes…
You feel really resentful, and then you feel guilty for feeling resentful! Here is the good news.

You don’t have to feel that way any more.
There is a way to let go of the guilt, resentment and feelings of selfishness. There is a way to discover your authentic self, and have everything go smoothly for you (you could be one of those people).
If that sounds good, please join me and 11 Authentic Life experts for a free tele-series from November 16 -20.
If you feel this way (and please tell me that I wasn’t alone!), this free event is perfect for you! You will learn:
  • What the authentic self actually is (so you know when you’ve found yours and it isn’t just your ego playing tricks on you).
  • How each expert got over her struggles (trust me, everyone had to hit a cross roads first –and they weren’t pretty) so she could be happy, guilt free and successful.
  • How to actually make the changes necessary. Yes, your family and job are important — but so are you! It’s time to take care of you, and each mentor has a specific expertise so you can grab tips in a variety of life areas!
  • Plus more (there is over 10 hours of audio that is free to listen to for the entire 5 days).

Register here so you don’t miss this opportunity! You have 5 days to listen, so you can listen at your leisure, from the comfort of your home, with a cup of tea and in your pj’s if you wish.

Can’t wait to see you there!

Hugs,
Barb Powell, psychic medium

Canadian Psychic Medium heading to Los Angeles, California

Hello everyone!  Big news…I’m heading to Los Angeles California!!

I fly into LAX on August 12th to August 18th.  I may be doing some private readings or psychic gatherings if I have time.  If you are interested in putting something together, whether it be a private psychic party, gathering/talk, or private readings just swing me an email at barb @ sacred-connections.us (take out the spaces in the email).  I am in LA for some media work which I will let you all know in due time once I can fully explain the details.

Looking forward to this travel, hope LA is ready for me…lol

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Life Coaching and Empowerment

Life Coaching and Empowerment

See Website:  www.barb-powell.com/classes.php

I am now offering Life Coaching. These sessions will be different from my readings, in that they will be ongoing for a period of time to help my clients get through certain periods in their life, or to help them make serious life changes over time, or to enhance their own spiritual growth. This is NOT a psychic reading, however, if I do pick up on information I will pass it along.

Each client is an individual, and each person will need different types of information or work to get through certain things.

Issues that may come up in your Coaching Session(s) are:

  • Empowerment
  • Energy Work, May include work on your Chakras (energy centres)
  • Releasing past events/lives/challenges/people
  • Making changes to your everyday life
  • Making Changes to your way of thinking
  • Affirmations
  • Meditations
  • Changing relationships by changing the way you think, act and behave
  • Using the Law of Attraction
  • Transitioning your career

As each Soul is different, each coaching session and time frame will be different. Below are some examples of time frames for Life Coaching. These are not the only options, but should provide a guideline for you.

Psychic Medium Mentorship

Workshops, Classes & Distant Training

Psychic Medium Mentorship

In person & by telephone

Please Read Carefully…

This is an individualized, Intensive, one on one telephone and/or in person psychic medium training program. It was originally designed to accommodate students who live too far to receive in person training, however, it can be a combination of in person and telephone training depending on where you are located at.

As the instructor, I work with you personally during the course of 8 weeks, one session per week (depending on what is agreed upon for dates/times) lasting between 1 to 1.5 hours long. The overall goal is to bring you to a level of proficiency and confidence in your psychic skill level so you have what you need to begin practicing on your own. As with my group classes, while you are developing your psychic skills, you are also healing yourself as a person as as a psychic/healer and raising your level of happiness.

Some students take this training because they are desiring to increase their current skill level, while others are brand new on the path of the psychic arts but want to ensure they have the best training possible. Still others have strong personal healing goals and view the training as a path to their own spiritual growth.

I structure the training based on each students needs, goals, skill and comfort level. First I will call you to have a student/teacher conference to determine your skill level and what you’re wanting to accomplish so that I may guide and create the best possible mentorship program. Once that is done you will receive an outline of your mentorship course to agree upon.

Depending on the students comfort level, by the 3rd or 4th session, supportive volunteers might be brought on the phone so the student can practice on them under my close supervision.

A couple sessions could be spent learning remote viewing skills by reading objects, locations, and events both past, present and future.

Throughout the training the student learns how to improve communication with spirit guides, Angels, and learns how to protect themselves & deal with fear & doubt.

The training includes 7 training sessions and concludes with a full reading by myself to equal 8 sessions.

While I make myself available to the student every two weeks, some students have such busy lives and hectic carreers that they prefer to meet with me once every 3 weeks, etc. I am very flexible with this. Some students request the same day/time every two weeks while the majority like to set a new time/day at the end of each session. It’s never a problem to reschedule if something comes up at the last minute.

The cost is $1,000 for the full program. I can only have about 3 or 4 students at any given time. (Each session is intense for both the student and myself, so I never work with more then one student bi-weekly. The program is comprehensive and teaches skills and provides experiences and enables transformation that is really priceless. Skills learned can also apply to everyday life as well as your psychic work!

The program is not homework intensive but students are encouraged to practice meditations and readings in between sessions. Those that do tend to find the program even more enriching. There may be some ‘homework’ to be completed before the next session but I promise this is not like high school.

I am always happy to answer any questions about the course if you are seriously considering it, please feel free to email or call me at 1-888-581-0367 (toll free). I can not offer discounts at this time. However, it is possible to pay for the course in two or three installments.

Since the course is conducted over the telephone, I usually call the student at my own expense. I am able to call anyone in any part of the world so I am beginning to work with international students now. It is necessary to have a good command of the English language unless you have your own interpreter who is really good.

It’s January…2009!

Hello everyone, it’s freakin cold outside eh?  My gosh.  I have heard that the 2009 connections tour will be postponed, no worries though.  Everything happens for a reason.  Those who have signed up can stay signed up, eventually the new date will be posted and everyone will be contacted to see if they are still interested.  I’m not concerned as I just allow life to take place and keep moving forward.  I may not understand what my guides are trying to do, but I have to trust.

This year, 2009 I will be focusing on cold cases.  I will probably work on one or two cases a year.  Meaning I will actually go out to locations, see people, etc using my intuitive investigations if you will.  I do profiling and this is a part of what I want to do.  Although not something I want to be known for.  I just have to wait for those to contact.  That will be my guide.  I have already put out in the Universe that if it’s something I’m suppose to do in 2009, it will find me.

I have also been booking psychic parties and other such things.  People have contacted me and said I’ll arrange for such a number of people to be at my home for you to ‘read’ them.  Sure, why  not.  I will only read for half hour per person, it’s cheaper as well than my regular half hour fee.  Of course it depends though on how far I will travel.  And I will travel.  I have already been to Spiritwood, which is about 2hrs away from where I live.  I required an overnight fee and travel fees.  Which wasn’t too bad.  It was still cheaper per person than my regular fee for the half hour.  It worked out well for all involved!  I had a great time as well, a bit tired…but I love meeting new people and seeing the energy changes and shifts in them.  Plus a bonus for the host, or person who organizes it is that they get their half hour for free if it’s more than 10 people they book! 

I had a voice mail saying that people are having troubles working my online calendar….I haven’t received too many emails about it.  Now granted it can be confusing.  I may not keep it and just go by email to book…who knows.  Telephone is difficult to find me or my assistant to book.  Keep trying eventually we will connect!  As far as I know, I may be heading to Florida this October 2009….I’m sure I’ll know more closer to the date.

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Barb Powell, a renowned Canadian Psychic Medium, Profiler, and Remote Viewer, who possesses the naturally gifted ability to connect with spirit and with animals in order to help others bring about positive change in their lives both emotionally and spiritually.

Barb’s realistic approach, which does not incorporate any tools, has helped her thousands of clients all over the world find exactly what it is they are looking for. Her ultimate goal is to provide hope and enlightenment to all those who choose to seek it, because your life is your message!

She performs psychic medium readings in person, telephone, email and chat worldwide.  Contact her today, visit her website for further details and information!

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